Finding Meaning When Life Feels Empty Logotherapy with Talí Uribe

Logotherapy is a meaning-centred psychotherapy developed by psychiatrist Viktor Frankl, based on the principle that the primary human drive is the search for purpose – not pleasure or power.

In clinical practice, logotherapy helps people reconnect with what makes their life personally meaningful through three pathways: creative work, deep relationships and experiences, and the attitude we choose toward unavoidable suffering. Unlike therapies focused on reducing symptoms or analysing the past, logotherapy is forward-looking – it asks not what went wrong, but what your life is asking of you now.

As a psychotherapist certified in logotherapy through the Viktor Frankl Institute and practising bilingually in English and Spanish, I work with adults experiencing burnout, existential crisis, life transitions, and the particular disorientation that comes with living far from home. Sessions are available in person in Valencia and Madrid, and online across Spain and internationally.

When Nothing Feels Meaningful Anymore

You might have a job, a home, people who care about you. And yet, if you’re exploring logotherapy, you’re probably here because something fundamental feels absent.

You wake up and something is missing. Not a thing you can name or fix. Just an absence, a quiet hollowness underneath the ordinary business of your day. You go through the motions. You achieve the things you’re supposed to achieve. But none of it lands. None of it feels like it means anything.

This experience has a name. Viktor Frankl – psychiatrist, Holocaust survivor, and founder of logotherapy – called it the existential vacuum. It isn’t depression, though it can feel like it. It isn’t ingratitude, though people might suggest you should count your blessings. It’s what happens when your life has lost its sense of direction, when the question “why does any of this matter?” has no answer.

This isn’t a character flaw. It’s a signal. And it can be worked with.

What Is Logotherapy And How Is It Different from Other Therapy?

Most therapy asks: what went wrong? It looks back at your childhood, your patterns, the origins of your suffering. This is valuable. But it isn’t always the only question that matters.

Logotherapy asks a different question: what makes this life worth living for you?

Developed by Viktor Frankl and grounded in his lived experience of surviving three Nazi concentration camps, logotherapy is built on a radical premise, that human beings are fundamentally driven by the search for meaning, and that the suffering born from a meaningless life is a specific kind of pain that requires a specific kind of response.

This isn’t about positive thinking or motivation. It’s about discovering what is genuinely yours, your reasons, your values, your particular way of being in the world, even when external circumstances are painful or unclear.

How does it differ from other approaches?

Compared to CBT, logotherapy doesn’t focus primarily on reframing negative thoughts. It goes deeper, to the question of what you’re living for. Compared to psychoanalysis, it is forward-looking rather than backward-looking, your past is relevant, but your future orientation matters more. And compared to many wellness-based approaches, it doesn’t flinch from suffering. Frankl’s insight was precisely that suffering itself can become a source of meaning, when we choose how we relate to it.

I trained at the Viktor Frankl Institute in Vienna, completing my logotherapy certification in 2022. It is one of the approaches that shapes how I understand the human condition and how I work with clients who are searching for something more than symptom relief.

Burnout That Goes Deeper Than Stress

There is ordinary burnout, the exhaustion that comes from doing too much for too long. Rest helps. Boundaries help. Time away helps.

And then there is the other kind.

You take the holiday. You sleep. You step back from the emails. But when you return, the emptiness is still there, because the thing you burned out for has revealed itself to be insufficient. The career you sacrificed for doesn’t feel worth the sacrifice. The goals you chased don’t feel like yours anymore. The life you built looks correct from the outside and feels hollow from the inside.

This is meaning-burnout. It isn’t an energy problem. It’s an orientation problem. The fuel ran out not because you worked too hard, but because you lost the reason you were working.

This is precisely the territory logotherapy was designed for. Not to help you manage the symptoms of a meaningless life, but to help you find your way back to a life that has genuine direction one that is yours, not the one you inherited, or performed, or defaulted into.

Many of my clients come to this realisation somewhere in their late thirties or forties, often after achieving exactly what they set out to achieve. The success is real. So is the emptiness. Logotherapy helps you sit with that paradox honestly and find a different kind of answer.

Losing Yourself After Moving to a New Country

When you move countries, you don’t just move your body. You move the entire architecture of who you are in the world.

Back home, you had a language you moved through effortlessly, a social role that others understood, a sense of your own competence and cultural fluency. Here – wherever here is – you start again. You have to explain yourself. You can’t quite read the room. You feel younger than your years, more uncertain than you’ve been in a long time.

And underneath the practical challenges, there is often something quieter and more disturbing: the sense that you don’t quite know who you are without all those familiar structures. Strip away the career context, the old friendships, the language you joke in, the neighbourhood where people know your name and who is left?

I know this experience from the inside. I have lived and worked across Colombia, Germany, and Spain. I understand what it is to rebuild an identity from a different starting point, not once, but repeatedly. And I understand how logotherapy offers something specific in this context: the recognition that meaning doesn’t live in external structures. It lives in your relationship to your own experience, your values, and your choices and those travel with you.

If you’ve moved to Spain and found yourself asking not just “where do I belong?” but “who am I without the life I had before?”, this is work I understand deeply, and work I find meaningful to do.

When Everything Changes – Divorce, Career Collapse, Starting Over

Some life events don’t just change your circumstances. They collapse the framework you were using to understand yourself.

Divorce does this. So does redundancy, bereavement, a serious illness, a child leaving home. The logotherapists call these existential crises, moments when the meaning-structure that held your life together has fractured, and you are left in the rubble of what was, trying to imagine what comes next.

This is different from ordinary grief, though grief is part of it. It’s the disorientation of waking up in a life that no longer makes sense according to the rules you were previously living by. The map is gone. The landmarks have shifted. And you are being asked, often without warning, to rebuild.

Logotherapy doesn’t rush past this. Frankl understood that the darkest moments carry something important: the question they force you to answer. What do you actually value, now that the old framework is gone? What kind of person do you want to be in the face of this? What, specifically, makes this worth continuing?

These aren’t abstract questions. In therapy, they become concrete. We work with the material of your actual life – your relationships, your history, your sense of what matters – to find the threads you can build from, even when everything seems broken.

Finding Meaning After Abuse

Narcissistic abuse does something specific and cruel to meaning.

It doesn’t just hurt you. Over time, it systematically dismantles your ability to trust your own perception, your own values, your own sense of what is real and what you deserve. By the time many people leave, if they leave, they don’t just feel damaged. They feel like they don’t know who they are.

The work of recovering from abuse has several phases. Safety comes first. Stabilisation comes next. And then – often underestimated, often neglected in conventional trauma work – comes the work of meaning reconstruction. Who am I now? What do I believe about myself, about others, about what I can trust? What do I want my life to look like from here?

This is logotherapy’s territory. Not the symptom management of trauma, though other approaches, including IFS, address that, but the deeper question of how to rebuild a sense of self and purpose after someone spent years trying to take it from you. IFS Therapy ->

This work is not quick. But it is possible. And it requires a therapist who understands both the specific dynamics of what happened, and the existential territory of what comes after.

If this resonates, you can read more about narcissistic abuse recovery →.

Working with Talí Uribe – What Sessions Look Like

The first session lasts about 60 minutes. It’s a space where you can share what brings you to therapy and ask any questions about how I work. Starting therapy can bring doubts or fears, so I focus on creating a sense of safety and trust from the beginning. I listen carefully to what is happening in your life and what feels most difficult right now.

By the end of that first conversation, the goal is simply to have a clearer sense of whether this feels like the right therapeutic space to begin working together. I offer sessions in Valencia, Madrid and also online.

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What do you do when life feels meaningless?

When life feels meaningless, it’s often a signal that you’ve lost connection to what matters most to you, not that nothing matters. Logotherapy, developed by Viktor Frankl, helps you discover specific, personal sources of meaning through your relationships, creative work, and how you choose to respond to suffering. Working with a logotherapist can help you reconnect with purpose, even in the most difficult circumstances.

What is logotherapy in simple terms?

Logotherapy is a form of therapy developed by Viktor Frankl that helps you find personal meaning and purpose in life. Unlike therapies that focus on reducing symptoms or analyzing the past, logotherapy focuses on what makes life worth living for you – even during difficult times. It’s especially effective for burnout, existential crisis, and major life transitions.

How do you recover from an existential crisis?

Recovering from an existential crisis involves reconnecting with what gives your life personal meaning, through relationships, purposeful work, or how you choose to face suffering. Logotherapy helps you move from feeling lost to discovering new direction. Working with a therapist trained in this approach can accelerate the process of rebuilding purpose and clarity.

Written by Talí Uribe – Psychologist (Universidad de los Andes, 1999), IFS Level 1 Certified (IFS Institute, 2025) and Diploma in Logotherapy and Existential Analysis (Viktor Frankl Institute, 2022). 20+ years of clinical experience in Valencia, Madrid and online.

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